KAMBI SHARES

House of Dandy If you are in a relationship; be it the one you were born into or the one you created, pain is inevitable. Simple reason being that we are humans, mortals, and it is in human nature to cause pain, to make mistakes. Even when it feels like the right thing, like a situation where you lie to protect someone you love, they can still find it hurtful because of differing views. Even if a person dedicates thier life to being and doing good, because of ''differing views'', something they do would come off as hurtful to someone in thier life. Hurt and pain is inevitable. That's the simple truth. We only just learn how to deal with such times when it comes because it will.

image source: google This is not my favourite topic to talk about because of the ‘gory’ details but it’s a necessary evil considering the century we are in. Like many other things in this 21 st century, there are so many false truths flying about concerning sex. Perverted stories of what sex is and what it is for. Here’s ten basic things or more you need to know and tell others about sex.

image source: google.com Good morning dearies! Decided to give us a douse on the relationship side today, enjoy reading! Long post alert I’ve read a lot of posts with very long tales and stories on why courtships today are not what they are supposed to be. In fact I got the post title from one of the articles I read. There is a whole rearrangement of the order God has placed the universe. Our culture has all been sexualized in this generation. Everything is going on wrong but it somehow still manages to seem to be right because our culture and lifestyle has been sexualized. For example, It’s now okay for kids who are yet to know who they are to date and make out and we stand aside and say ‘aww’, it’s now a normal thing to sleep around with every guy you date before you marry or have sex with a random guy you met at a club, it’s now okay to disobey our parents and run off with our ‘ soulmate’ , it’s now normal to move in with someone we don’t know just because we are gettin...

Hello dearies, been away too long, right? Yes, I know, been beating myself up about it, have not really followed through with my resolutions for the blog this year but I’m hoping to do better, so to today’s post. I’m a fan of E! Entertainment network, website,  tv shows and reality shows so I know a lot about their lifestyle. It should be noted that not everything we see in the media is true but it has given me insight a little about thier way of life. Now this post is not an insult or insubordination to Americans but an observation and advice that will hopefully reduce the divorce rate. Yesterday I was watching E! News when I returned home(home sweet home😊)  and it was mentioned that the last couple of the bachelorette show ( a show where a bunch of guys leave their life and come together to compete for a girl and the last one standing, the one she chooses becomes her husband, weird right? I know!) Had separated or divorced and I felt sad in my spirit. I’ve always ha...

I hear a lot of ladies very many times saying I’m looking for a husband o either as a joke or actually being serious and am also guilty of this(as a joke though). And many actually go out of their way to “find” this husband. But this is not the case, this should not be the case. The last time I read proverbs 18 v 22, it still read “he who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favour from the lord”. That is to say that we are meant to be “found”. The bible didn’t say he who finds a husband and there’s a reason for that. So if you are a Christian, why not keep every part of his word and not always trying to wave off some scriptures with the excuse that a different thing is now obtainable in our present dispensation.

Good morning dear blog readers? Hope you all are chasing your dreams? This blog post is a topic that has many differential opinions from people. A girl getting married to a guy who is way older than her? A girl getting married to her age mate? Which is the ideal type? This is mostly always the bone of contention when such a topic as this crops up.    A lot of people believe a lady should marry a guy at least five years older than her or at least ten or fifteen years older than her. Two years older or an age mate is not acceptable. One thing I’ve noticed about people who make this argument is that either they speak from experience or they speak based on where they are coming from, foundation. Same reason goes for people who argue differently. This goes to show that experience and foundation are not solid yardsticks because they teach differently.   It all depends. It always all depends.

Last week, while I was reading a post about not watching the movie fifty shades of grey on deserveyourgreatlife.com blog by Adaeze Obiako, she said something worthy of note. She said that every gift from God to mankind has a perverted version. This also applies to love. Love has many perverted versions of it. Versions that make people scared of love, versions that make people scared to show love, versions that make people scared to open their heart to love, versions that make people not to be receptive to love, versions that make people go through life with the wrong notion of love. Well, I want to talk on what love is not, as a sequel to my last week’s post on + what love is.

Happy new week dearies, how was your weekends? Hope not boring? If it was, you might want to read the last post on curing boredom below. I’m sorry for putting this post up late, school runs. Now to today’s post… ** ** ** ** ** If anyone was meant to be together, it was Sally and Emeka. Since the day they met, they haven’t been able to let go.  It was still two weeks away but for sally,

Some people will judge before they read this post and that's welcome. I'm starting with one of my favorite things to talk about, relationships. The mouth is a powerful tool, even the bible says so. The earth, heavens, nature and God listens when we speak so I speak to my future that I shall be married to a man with bugatti and I implore you to do the same. Buggatti as some of us know is one of the biggest and expensive cars as at now but buggatti in this context somewhat differs. I will marry a man with a bugatti means I will marry a man with a future, that is, a man who knows what he wants and is working towards it, It means I will marry a man with financial stability to take care of a family at the time we are getting married, it means I'll marry a man with God.