Last week, while I was reading a post about not watching the movie fifty shades of grey on deserveyourgreatlife.com blog by Adaeze Obiako, she said something worthy of note. She said that every gift from God to mankind has a perverted version. This also applies to love. Love has many perverted versions of it. Versions that make people scared of love, versions that make people scared to show love, versions that make people scared to open their heart to love, versions that make people not to be receptive to love, versions that make people go through life with the wrong notion of love. Well, I want to talk on what love is not, as a sequel to my last week’s post on +what love is.
Love is not romance, that’s just a part of love. The love between a man and woman attracted to each other. Love is bigger than romance. It is a fruit of the spirit that many don’t have! You have a boyfriend whom you love so much or a spouse but that’s where your own love stops, you can't give your much to those with little, my dear, you do not have love in your heart. If love to you is only the romance version, then you have along way to go. You give your all to a guy and nothing or little to God, you are yet to understand the concept of love.